Doggy Style VS Missionary…

On two different occasions, I took a poll of sorts to determine which position most people liked/prefer and what styles ranged from best to least favorite and one thing is for sure, A LOT of ladies and the gents love it from the back! This is because doggy is so wild and naughty, leaving you lusting for and wanting more. Also, it is freaking amazing for the involved parties; think deeper penetration and reaching the G-spot!

For his dick to hit the spot, you have to be angled right! Aaaaand doggy is just the thing. Get on all fours with him behind you, face all the way down is even better and let him hit and hold on to your derriere or hips for balance with firm thrusts, deep enough for some “balls-slapping-against-your-pussy” strokes. There’s just something very primal about doing the sex from behind that brings out the animal in even the gentlest guy.

To rev things up a bit, accessorize! Add a toy, beads, balls or a vibrator, to the mix to amp up the heat! Stimulate your clit as he thrusts for a stronger orgasm or mix it up with anal sex and/or cunnilingus while you’re back there. Now, being on your hands and knees can get exhausting or maybe just for a twist, slight adjustments can make things even wilder; lie flat on a bed and elevate your waist with some pillows.

The best part about doggy is you don’t need a bed!!!!!! Anywhere at all works especially when it’s a got-to-have-you-take-me-right-now situation (slide them panties to the side already!); in or outside the house, in the shower, against the wall. Just bend over or lean forward slightly and brace yourself against a surface, table, chair, kitchen sink, washer etc etc

Touch her erogenous spots for heightened sensations and ladies, if your breasts are a surefire way to get you hot and bothered, show him how you want his hands on you.  Don’t be shy to moan or say any of those naughty, nasty things in your head, he can’t see your face. Talk dirty!

NOW

Missionary on the other hand is a classic and the MVP, lowkey, of positions. It is one of the most comfortable positions especially for the chill (lazy) moments and the versatility… 😏However it can bore very quickly.

One of the great things about missionary is the amount of contact with your partner. To keep it heated, feel each other up, rub up and all over your partner’s bod; back, legs, thighs, lower back(erogenous spots really). Pull ’em close and enjoy the feel of your chests and bodies pressed together. Think of yourself as starving and the only way to be fed is through your hands. Be consumed by each other’s touch.

Don’t stay still!!!!!! Try bending your knees, plant your feet on the bed and move them hips! Or, try rocking back and forth, or move in circles or undulate. Find a way to move your hips so his movements hit your G-spot. Don’t even be bothered about what your stomach looks like, you’re lying down any way so you look like you have the flattest belly in the moment (if you don’t already). Focus on the sensations and maximize your pleasure by moving your hips however feels best for you.

Oral sex and fingers can help bring you to orgasm before penetration which is great because Le coit will be even more pleasureable as you’re more open and you have increased chances of orgasms during sex.

You can raise your butt with a pillow to change the angle and penetration. Or close your legs together for a tighter feel and the penis stimulates your clit that way so win win. Hold on to his hips while he thrusts so you control the pace. Again, accessorize! Body jewelry and vibrators can come in handy. Kiss more! Spice it up with a blindfold or hands bound above you or spank that man (playfully).

Remember that a flip in any direction really changes the angles and depth of penetration. Get on top, use your hands to support you while you lean back and rock against his pelvic bone. Or lay on your sides and wrap one leg around his hip to get him in deeper. Talk dirty in her ear (if she’s into that) while you thrust and don’t neglect other parts of your lover’s body.

Either way, both positions rock and have their own appeal.

Sex in front of a mirror is another interesting way to spice either position up. Watch each other’s reflections and get a real good look at the action while you get even more turned on by your reflections.

😉

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